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①我的朋友女生緣特別好，和我形成了鮮明的對比。于是我向他請教怎樣才能俘獲女孩們的芳心。他告訴我：“這沒什么難的。只要你對她們冷淡點就可以了。”我按照他說的試了試，居然真的有效。這是不是匪夷所思？當我冷冷淡淡的時候，反而讓女孩們為我傾倒。——作者注（若無特殊說明，本書腳注均為作者注）