repressive
Ideally， we should be able to have genital sex without trouble， and， in the long term， fuse love and sex together with someone who is kind. Of course， it rarely happens.
理想狀態下，找到相愛一生的人，去做羞羞的事情，
rarely
很少
品相完美，
如果沒找到生活是？
Typically， we can’t fuse sex and love: we have a sense that sex doesn’t belong with tender feelings.‘A man of this kind will show a sentimental enthusiasm for women whom he deeply respects but who do not excite him to sexual activities，’ noted Freud，‘and he will only be potent with other women whom he does not “love” but thinks little of or even despises.’
sex和 love無法融合
當我們愛一個人的時候，恨不得把最柔軟的地方給對方，
無法融合
熱情一面
折服于沒有沖動
noted Freud，‘and he will only be potent with other women whom he does not “love” but thinks little of or even despises.’
不愛，鄙視，輕視表達喜愛、
will only be potent with other women whom he does not “love” but thinks little of or even despises.’
不愛
despises 鄙視輕視
柔弱保護欲
強大的女生，
良善的人連在一起、
Neuroses aren’t just created within individuals. The whole of society keeps us neurotic. In his book Civilisation and its Discontents (1930)， Freud wrote that a degree of repression and psychological dysfunction is simply the cost of living in a society. Society insists on regulating sex， imposes the incest taboo， requires us to put off our immediate desires， demands that we follow authority and makes money available only through work. A non-repressive civilisation is a contradiction.
Neuroses
神經癥，個人內部產生，The whole of society keeps us neurotic.
整個社會都讓我們神經癥
the cost of living in a society
文明及其不滿
In his book Civilisation and its Discontents (1930)
某種程度的壓抑和不滿就是生活在社會的代價
psychological dysfunction
心理障礙
解釋、
imposes the incest taboo， requires us to put off our immediate desires， demands that we follow authority and makes money available only through work.
imposes 強加….
requires
put off 延遲
immediate
demands
follow authority 服從權威
生活：正常
心理：壓抑障礙
沒有壓迫的文明是一種矛盾
注明出處，不然就是抄襲
成年人的世界絕對的自由建立在約束上
生活壓力
imposes the incest taboo， requires us to put off our immediate desires， demands that we follow authority and makes money available only through work.
社會規范
makes money available only through work.
makes money available only through work.
工作掙錢不搶不偷
規范行為
心理壓抑
A non-repressive civilisation is a contradiction.沒有壓迫的
A non- repressive civilisation is a contradiction
沒有壓迫的文明是一種矛盾
在成年人的世界壓抑
文明是帶壓迫的
反復試探……約束
自由不是萬能、
自由約束
迷亂
慌亂
糜亂
壓抑心理障礙
require sb to do sth 強加某人做某事
require sb to do sth
demand 要求
demand
make sth available 讓某物可以利用
make sth available
non-repressive 沒有壓迫的
non-repressive
belong with 屬于
civilisation 文明 fuse ？fuse
保險絲
每日一句：Man’s affairs are like the flow of floodwater，
A life is just like floating in a dream.
—Last Night the Wind and Rain Together Blew (Crows Crying at Night)， Poet， Li Yu
世事漫隨流水，算來一夢浮生。
——《烏夜啼·昨夜風兼雨》李煜，詩人
昨夜風兼雨，簾幃颯颯秋聲。燭殘漏斷頻欹枕，起坐不能平。
世事漫隨流水，算來一夢浮生。醉鄉路穩宜頻到，此外不堪行。
——《烏夜啼·昨夜風兼雨》李煜
浮生若夢
小已經和浮生
我有點想你們了，我的小湯包們，浮生小已
過去發生過的事情就如煙飄散，不堪行的看過了，遠離就好。
世事漫隨流水，算來一夢浮生。
浮生，我給你改了名字叫傅嶼
你還陪著浮生的小已經，真好、
最近江謬行者路難，昨夜風煎雨，卷腹生，早上醒來，壓抑過后，及時雨沒來。
紀詩予及時雨愿你浮在夢里，醒來看到江謬的時候別發脾氣，抱抱他。
浮生半日，醒來依舊愛你們。